Thursday, 17 January 2013

Behavior




 Everyone thinks and sees life differently, which means everyone behaves differently. Seriously, look at all the crazy ideas you have had, now imagine if everyone in the world thought the same thing and in the end you were able to act on them. what will the world be like if that happened? I for one know that if I acted on all my ideas the world will be one very messed up place.

Even if you haven’t thought of anything potentially harmful to the existence of the human race, you definitely have your flaws. They could be vanity, pride, ignorance and the list goes on. Think of the number of times you have been rude to someone, made someone feel bad, or even just not being friendly to someone. You then realize that no one is perfect from your perspective of life, not even you.

So now the big question is what on earth should we do to make sure we all get along? The key is to just learn to consider what others want and try as much as possible not to be selfish. You have to admit, you are either over doing it or not thinking about others enough. I wish I could talk more about his topic, but truth be told, you can only get along with someone if both of you want to get along.

The thing if you want people to get along with you, you will have to watch how you behave towards then and hope that that’s enough to get them to want to stay friends with you. If a person can stick around and put up with you, when you behave like a prick (excuse the language) ,you know you have a real friend.

I’m not saying you should intentionally behave like that, I’m saying that when you are at a rough patch and are having problems with relating to people or you are so rude to them when telling them you need to be alone and they will decide to give you space, but be there when you need them the most. If you behave this way towards someone, they will behave the same way towards you, and you will both be true good friends to each other. 

Believe me when i say if you don't hold on to your true friends tight, and you end up regreting it in the end, because a true friend will be the person to rush into your way if you are headind astray. 
A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably.